4 Ways to Have a Meaningful Mother’s Day

By Jody Bell

This Mother’s Day is different. We are emerging into a new world after a slew of turbulence and hardships experienced due to the COVID-19 pandemic. 

Many are still recovering from this, yet, with vaccines in sight there is a touch of hope in most people’s hearts as they look excitedly into the future. Yet, for some, it is a day to mourn those maternal figures who have been lost. 

Regardless of if this Mother’s Day is a day to celebrate, mourn, or a mix of both, it is a great idea to aim for a meaningful and genuine day. While it’s great to have the traditional celebrations of flowers, chocolate, and breakfast in bed, there is also space for consequential and purposeful actions and conversations as well. 

How to approach this may be difficult, but no worries ‒ we’ve put together our top tips for having a meaningful Mother’s Day. 

 

1. Ask Plenty of Questions to Turn the Conversation Towards Her

As daughters, we are often on the receiving end of mother-daughter conversations. 

Whether it's advice, support, or ears to vent to, we become so used to mother-daughter conversations turning to question-answer, that we get used to this structure. For example, how many times have you asked your mother how her day went when you get home from school? It’s perfectly fine if the answer isn’t something you’re proud of, but make sure you put effort into changing this both on Mother’s Day and going forward. 

Ask her about what she wants to do, what she wants your conversations to revolve around, and maybe even life lessons and tid-bits that she has yet to share with you. 

2. Don’t Be Afraid of The Heavy Topics

Sometimes the best way to connect with someone is through a discussion of hardship. 

When you put effort into asking your mother questions, you may find that the life-lessons and conversations you share are a bit heavier. That’s okay! Your mom will probably like talking about these subjects and having an opportunity to share the challenges she has faced in her life. It is not a negative experience just because it is a heavy one, in fact, it might be an opportunity for you to be a supportive figure to your mom. 

3. Let Perspective Lead to Gratitude 

Some people don’t have the opportunity to be with their mom this Sunday, and conversely some mothers may have lost a child or have a unique relationship that makes this day difficult as well. 

Having this perspective is crucial to embracing gratitude. It’s great to even bring this up with your mom ‒ mentioning how thankful you are to have her in your life and to be able to celebrate this day with her. 

Additionally, if you’re looking for activities to do, there are usually local community events specifically for mothers/children in need held on Mother’s Day.  Volunteering at these events with your mother is a great way to give back and be grateful for the relationship you two share. 

4. Acknowledge the Maternal Rockstar’s in Your Life

Mother’s Day isn’t solely a day to celebrate your mother ‒ it’s a day to celebrate all of the women who have loved and supported you. 

Whether this is a family friend, grandmother, or even a big sister, chances are you have women in your life who have shaped you into the person you are today. Mother’s Day is a great day to simply thank them for the support, love, and knowledge they have shared with you over the years. 

COVID-19 was a difficult time for all of us. This Mother’s Day ‒ which feels a touch more hopeful than last year ‒ is a great opportunity to reflect, recharge, and have meaningful conversations and experiences with your family. 

Jody Bell, 19, is Girls With Impact’s Chief Editor and a program graduate of Greenwich High School. Girls With Impact is the nation’s only online, after-school, entrepreneurship program for girls 12-21, turning them into tomorrow’s business leaders and innovators. More info at www.girlswithimpact.org